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 This man isn't a social worker, mental health worker or any sort of professional. Whether he was a real teacher is debatable considering his texts and emails which are short and without correct spelling and grammar, and his inability to read or understand my emails or texts. What he did to me was an act of abuse because it was coercive control and gaslighting which has harmed me permanently.  He undermined and humliated me and stole my sense of self by trying to diagnose me and gaslight me for reacting to what he did. He destroyed my sense of safety, self and security by stealing my medical data, although it was medical data falsified by his doctor who was routinely facilitating him in picking up vulnerable people and school students.  He forced on me, forcing everything from the book he decided I was to read, to his awful 'mindfulness' manipulations, to his demand that I claimed disability allowance, which he rammed on me with such force he caused me a breakdown - which...

 He spent a lot of time in stuck record mode, repeating the same things, especially popular psychology which he appeared to have been fed. I felt sad that a man his age, 73 then, was using bad popular psychology instead of wisdom.  When he was hurting me by playing with housing, stealing my medical data, He would repeat 'You're beating yourself up, that's your responsibility'. You know how in films, bullies use their victims' own hands to hit them and say they're hitting themselves. Michael's 'beating yourself up' thing is the same, he was putting his harm to me back on me for my reaction, manipulative and deflecting from his behaviour.  He always said things over and over, for example, 'Moving to Limerick could change your life'. He was right on that one. Just he kept saying it as if he was a machine.  He would say 'It's not what I can do for you, it's what you can do for me' and I just thought it was another popular psycholo...

 On my first morning in Limerick, having had no sleep and having been soaked through in the rain, I made my first connections in Limerick, with a charity who were out litterpicking and who habitually had a coffee together afterwards, so I got to know people straight away, and that's Limerick, it's a friendly city. I went on to volunteer and to study and train from the streets as there was no accommodation, I arrived when the students did, and the city has a severe shortage of accommodation.  I begged Michael to conclude and to confirm he'd stop interfering in my life behind my back. He ignored me. He texted once in the three weeks, some ramble about how 'we will pay for your storage unit' again who is 'we'? No one else was involved, with my consent, and his wife remained in the house and didn't meet me on the occasion he took me to the house.  He came after me trying to absolve himself and put me away in a mental illness charity which would not be availa...

  Summary of the Document about Michael Context & Vulnerability At the time of meeting M, Anna was homeless, autistic, physically disabled, and traumatised. She had recently left unsafe housing and was surviving precariously during Ireland’s housing crisis. M, a wealthy ex-teacher and property owner in his seventies, found her on the street and offered what appeared to be help: shelter, mentorship, and talk of a secure future. But the experience became one of manipulation, coercion, and betrayal. Initial “Help” & Manipulation M placed Anna in an empty Dublin penthouse he owned. He pressured her to go on disability allowance and enter the HAP scheme. He acted as though he was her “mentor” — a role he claimed proudly, especially in relation to vulnerable young men — but his behaviour quickly became confusing, controlling, and inappropriate. Unethical Medical Conduct M took Anna to a doctor he claimed as a close friend. This doctor — old, out of touch, and inapprop...

 In the few months that he was in my life, he did damage that has lasted for years with no relief, because for years he'd been enabled to believe he could do as he pleased.  This is an article to do with what he did and how things are now as he shows off publicly and makes himself a faux celebrity with yet another coat tails stunt: https://telegra.ph/How-abusers-get-away-with-it-09-22

 I knew you'd ask. Look, I doubt it, most of the time, I was just a fun toy, made him feel good. Michael needs props to feel good, the showing off in the press.I was a toy, he didn't care about my feelings, needs or wishes, but most of the time it was a fun game for him, one he could throw away, he wasn't interested in how I felt.  The time he did seem to want to hurt me and get a reaction was his theft of my medical data. Even when he threw me away, it was more like child dropping a toy 'Bored now, this one is hard work, let's do something else'.  But he did hurt me, he destroyed me, and he shouldn't be showing off in the #LimerickLeader  Here is a little sample of concerns:  https://telegra.ph/Do-I-understand-09-21